Most of us are programmed to react in certain ways when someone treats us nicely and in other ways when someone treats us poorly. You must ask yourself what is this common programming that we’re on? And why is it that we act this way?
An even better question would be why do “I” act that way? Because ultimately this choice is up to you, and shouldn’t include anyone else.
Perhaps you didn’t know you had a choice?
You are a Divine Creative Being. This means you have the freedom to choose not to be a programmed robot. You get to create your own responses and not allow them to be determined by some standard chosen for you by your society.
Just because someone pushes your buttons doesn’t mean you have to respond all nasty and such. Negativity does not have to beget negativity. You can choose to be creative by responding in a completely unexpected but positive way!
It may be easier said than done. But you can start out by noticing your programs.
Don’t uphold the status quo, because status quo is so boring. Get creative and chose your own reaction to things.
Anything else simply means you are operating on software that was designed to keep you in line with everyone else.
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